Hi Jiwoo this is my first mail to you but would talk about marriage, hope you don't mind. I only write mails to you and BYJ. both of you are my only idols so far. I am a few yrs older than you, and was a medical doctor before married. I really hope you and BYJ could be together forever because he is really a nice and responsible person. for a happy marriage, these two advantages are critical. some females are afraid of losing ways in their lifetime if quit the job after married, or could not catch with husband's talking topics. however, if a wife can keep looking for healthy hobbies with her husband together, it would be no problem. what he needs is understanding of his work and his points of views. so a wife's knowledge or education is important for marriage. I don't know if it is too bored to say this here, but I think if it is not a big deal, pls do not give up YJ. he must be a good husband and father. the reason why I am saying this is I read a news about the arguing between you and him which is really not what I want to see. in entertainment field, people are from diff background, and both of you seem to be having similarities in a lot of ways. it is hard for actors and actress to get life partners in this field, so pls take good care about your relationship and hope both of you are happy staying forever. By the way, getting to know your coming to HK this mth, now most of the time we waring summer shirts, but need a thin jacket in the air-conditioned indoor place. good luck to your trip. see you in HK. Cynthia